Homophobia
Why It Shouldn’t Be a Thing
People throughout the country and even the community are titled as “homophobic,” but what, exactly, does “homophobic” mean? The definition of homophobia is the dislike or prejudice against homosexual people. Many people feel as though homosexual people should not have the same rights as heterosexual people.
A large majority of these people are teens in high schools. The Exceeding Expectations program, sponsored by the LGBT Foundation, carried out research in Manchester, England schools showing that over half of the students had witnessed homophobic events occur in school. According to this research, 58% of students feel as though their school is not a safe place for them to come out and publicize their status. This is a considerable problem in the LGBT+ teens’ community. Holding in their feelings and feeling as though they don’t belong can trigger depression, anxiety and other mental and social problems.
Homophobia is a significant problem at many high schools. Being a part of the LGBT+ community, I have many friends who have been victims of homophobic actions. A sophomore friend has been the victim of many offensive slurs. These offensive slurs included, “tranny,” “faggot,” “transvestite,” “fag,” and “fagzilla.” Many people do not find that they are being offensive; however, they are the people harming others and not the ones being harmed by these hateful words.
A possible solution to this problem would be that homophobic people need to let go of their feelings toward LGBT+ people, and let them live in the way they want to live. They can do this exercising tolerance and allowing the LGBT+ community to live the way they want to live. We are all different and we all don’t agree, so by letting go of hateful feelings and letting people be, people in the LGBT+ community won’t have to live in fear of being hurt. This will help students feel like they belong in society, and that they have a purpose in this society as a whole.
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Anonymous • May 25, 2017 at 3:39 pm
Seeing as people were literally STONED and KILLED (gassed and tortured by infamous nazis) for being gay, trans, what have you, yes, homophobia is a thing. Perhaps it doesn’t quite match the definition for “phobia.” Nobody actually believes homophobia is the fear of gay people. It takes SO MUCH courage for individuals to step up and share their story like this one, because in todays world, there is still the fear of being killed or hurt or negatively impacted simply just for showing how they’ve lived underneath the rest of society for so long.
Calling someone by the name that makes them comfortable is COURTESY. It’s not PC, it’s just being a nice human being– it’s like not calling your parent/guardian by their actual name. It’s uncomfortable. Nobody is forcing you, but every time you call that person by their unwanted legal name, they die a little inside. Just for a moment. It hurts. You are silencing people who are striving for better lives.
Anonymous • Mar 29, 2017 at 12:57 pm
I believe that homophobia isn’t really “a thing”. People aren’t afraid of gay people, nor do they have a “prejudice” against them. Some just are not in support of them. Just like no one has to support another’s decisions, people shouldn’t expect people to support the “gay” mindset. I just would rather not be privy to all the attention-seeking details. Idc what you do in the comfort of your own home, it is your business. But don’t expect everyone to want to hear all about your story. GHS is a rather safe zone, I would say, but just like how you are allowed to express yourself in whatever way you want, we should be allowed to express ourselves also. If we aren’t in support of gay people, we don’t have to change just because you want us to. We shouldn’t have to speak in a “politically-correct” way (like being forced to call someone by their chosen name, and not their legal name) in order to avoid being in trouble with the administration or our peers. Hateful words can be eliminated, yes, but uncomfort and disagreement can’t. Peace should be the goal, but no one should be silenced.